What Men Want to Hear from Women
63Michael Miu 苗僑偉
I heard that men are more of the physical creatures and women are more of the mental beasts. Is that true? I cannot speak for the men but I agree that women are more of the mental or emotional ones. Being a woman, I can tell you what men want to hear from women, whether is from a girlfriend or his wife. I think we all can relate to that.
1) I love you-Even the fact that you are in a relationship or in a marriage, he knows that you love him but he wants to hear it as well. It is reassuring to hear that for men.
2) You are tall, dark, and handsome-In other words, you are hot! Who does not want to hear that?
3) So happy that I found you-He is happy to be with you and wants to know that you are happy too.
4) Thank you- That would mean a lot in different ways. Thank you for being in my life. Thank you for helping out with the chores. Thank you for making me happy, etc.
5) You are special-Itbetter be. Yes, they want to be treated like a king. Hearing that makes him feel Wanted and needed.
6) I wonder what life would be like if we met ten years ago instead of now-Sometimes, men met women in their later years after a divorce and several grown children later. He would have the same question in mind.
We can go on and on. We probably can come up with a dozen more. I think you get the point. In general, men want to hear they are wanted and needed as well as women. I hope you enjoy reading my hub and feel free to give feedback.
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I don't think a man could have put it together better. It is right on. I am printing this out and giving it to everyone I know. Thanks
Thanks for your comment,creativeone59. It is always nice to hear from you. I need to catch up with my reading and writing, LOL. Happy New Year!
You are funny, Michael:) Thanks for being my loyal friend!
Hi tim-tim,
Interesting topic and good write up, keep writing good
hubs. Please visit my hubs too.
Thanks, Mr Nice. I sure will, right now.
Thanks Tim-Tim. Everybody needs that.
Michael,it is true that everyone needs to hear that. Thanks for stopping by.
I really think you got a line on us, here. Well thought out post! Thanks!
Thanks,carolina muscle. I am looking forward to get your insight to get fit as well:)
I'd be happy to help.. any questions, just ask! :-)
Thanks,carolina muscle. Communication is important. Perhaps you can help by telling a woman what you want to hear:)
You are right about what men want to hear and you are what men want to see when they are hearing it.
What a nice comment/compliment,chrismarva.Thanks you:)
This is so interesting and true ..most of the time we as women dont realize men need positive reassurance and nurturing too ;) .Great job Tim-Tim!
Thanks Sherie!It is true that sometimes we just need to let them know and to reassure them! Thanks for visiting:)
I think it's the same way.. women also want to hear those special words from men.
Yes,dyesebel10. It is so true that we both want to hear nice things. Sometimes I think we are both fooling ourselves, LOL. Thanks for stopping by.
I liked the common sense in your hub about being very thoughtful to the man in your life. I don't know if you know but when i clicked to read your hub there was a triple X ad about Asian women. I found that offensive and wanted to let you know it was there. I liked reading your hub tho.
Thanks for letting me know,DorriOlds. I will look into it. Thanks for visiting my hub.
Great ! This is wonderful article.
Thanks,Denny for stopping by. Looking forward to read your hubs.
I kind of like to think I at least got the tall and handsome going. I am pretty white so I don't fit the stereo type of tall, dark and handsome. Haha. So it has always sort of bugged me. Damn, why can't I be a few shades darker. :)
You are funny,festersporling1. To be honest with you, I think in Chinese Culture,they prefer people in lighter skin in general. This is not to offend anyone, so please don't start sending me hate mail, LOL.
interesting and good to know! some times as women we like to think "me me me me" and forget there is also "him him him him!" I know for sure guys enjoy such compliments! thanks for sharing.
snow.x
snow_white88, thanks for visiting my hub and your comment. It is true that sometimes we think about us and forget about them:)
In short, appreciate your man...which is kind of hard to do when they act like total idiots!!
LOL...I'm a nurse, believe me I have seen it all! Men are a total pain to care for, the biggest babies you have ever seen. If they had to give birth the human race would end within a generation. I would rather have a woman patient any day of the week!
In spite of all this, I know what you mean with this hub. Its like living in a fantasy world, but if you really want to get along with your man, you have to stroke his ego...like all the time! Especially when they are young, as they age, they get a little easier to deal with because they develop some emotional intelligence.
Yes, in spite of all these things, I LOVE MEN!! Look around and see what they have done! The men built this country! All the roads and buidlings and big machines! It is the MEN who keep our country free, they go out and fight the wars so that we can have a better life here at home!
Yes, our American men are the very best in the world! The women live in the lap of luxery because of their hard working men. We have never known a day of hunger because our men grow enough food for the entire world. All these things are true, but it is also true that in America, and probably most other countries too, the women were standing behind their men, caring for them so that they could do these amazing things. I guess God knew what he was doing when he created men and women to work together as a team!
magnoliazz,you are so right about them!I do appreciate men in general! Thank you for the comment. I am looking forward to read your hubs! Thank you so much for reading mine.
Great Hub you are so right about what men want to hear. My man almost neads to hear it all the time and need to be shown my love but he is a great man and give it all back without question. Thank you
trsmith,glad you have the same point of view about men. Thansk for your comment:)
So true. Very great share.
internett1t3,thanks for reading my hub.
I love that last part...it is romantic..
Thank you for your comment, Melinda:)
really true..
Thank you for reading my hub, Wendy!
Great hub. Always useful and handy. I love all the points made. Wonderful. Thank you
Thank you for your hub I find it so true but women also need to hear all of this as well.here is something I pulled off my fb that someone wrote it's helpful to both sexes to help all relationships!!
ALL GUYS NEED TO READ THIS. -When she pulls away, pull her back. -When you see her start crying, just hold her and don't say a word. -When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind. -When she's scared, protect her. -When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her wear it. -When she says that she loves you, she really does mean it. -When she grabs at your hands, hold hers and play w.........ith her fingers. -When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold. -When she looks at you in your eyes, don't look away until she does. -When she re-posts this bulletin, she wants you to read it. ? -When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go. -When she says she's, okay don't believe it. -Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her. -Treat her like she's all that matters to you. -Watch her favorite movie with her even if you think it's stupid. -Don't talk about other girls around her. -Kiss her in the pouring rain. -When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is: "Whose butt am I kicking, baby?"
Sassywolf,thank you for taking your time to read my hub and commented on it!
creativeone59 Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago
Thanks for a great hub, Thanks for sharing. Godspeed. creativeone59